I have been a jiaoyou.com member for a few weeks.

It seems that people are using random picture of good looking man or woman to post as themselves. I have seen different person with the same picture of good looking woman. I have also seen guys posted picture of male model.

I guess it's getting harder and harder to find someone with sincerity and honesty. Why would anybody do that is beyond me, if you are truly sincere in your intention of finding your special someone, you can't and should not start off the wrong foot by lying about the essence of your identity. Unless your sole purpose is to get some attention and try to feel good about yourself that more people are clicking on your profile.

Although look is quite important, however it is not the most essential thing about a man or a woman. I value someone's integrity and honesty more, and then follow by personality and intelligence. I value a person's personality because it's important that she should have a bright outlook on life and I want to feel happy when I spend some time w/ the person. I value her integrity and honesty because while look will fade, but a person's character and principle stays with her for life.

I'm not showing my picture to everybody because I'm actually a very private person. I want to spend the time to really get to know a person before I gave out my key to open my picture. I really don't appreciate it when the first thing people notice about me is my look, not the warm and friendly smile I flash proudly.